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Mel Collie | Think You Are A Failure?

Mel Collie | Think You Are A Failure?

Most days I speak to other women who play it small, keep things quiet, afraid to shine their light.

Because they are worried what other people will think of them, but also, worried that they will fall flat on their face, fail, and then be laughed at.

Thats one reason that I kept playing it small when I moved to a new location in North Wales, UK, as a Pilates teacher, I met another Pilates teacher with a successful business a couple of miles away, just outside the village, but because I believed she had better Pilates equipment than I and that she was trained through a very strict and well connected Pilates school, I felt that she was better. I played it small. I got what I thought I deserved, which was…no clients…for weeks and weeks..

That left me feeling useless, a failure, with no purpose.

My partner then had a serious infection in his foot. In hospital , they wanted to take his foot off..he’s a climber, and that would have changed a lot of stuff for us, but having a very strong and different way of looking at life, probably due to his life of studying Physics and eastern mysticism, he quickly recovered and looked at whatever was to happen to him as an opportunity, not a failure.

That woke me up! Wow, if you can look at a serious implication of having a foot off as an opportunity, then I could look at not having any Pilates clients as a lesson, an opportunity, so I did. I changed my thinking. I changed my expectation , and the things changed around me.

Is my business as successful as it was before I moved here? Nope, nowhere near, but that took 5 years to build, and I’ve only just started here.

Have I changed the way I teach Pilates? yes I have. Ive slowed down. Ive used my spare time to study the brain and how it affects movement, pain, mobility, flexibility, strength. I used to train anyone, now I just train very small classes for specific types of clients, women who have lived with pain for more than 2 years, aged 30 + and find larger exercise classes intimidating. The sessions are a mixture of gentle modified Pilates, laughter, brain hacks to help reduce pain fast, self esteem boosters and accountability. Not your average class, but then Im not your average teacher.
Am I happy? Yes, most definitely, my days are free to be curious, and one of the things I have is a curiosity of the world, how things work, why things are the way they are, what a sunrise looks like by the lake, what a sunset looks like on the beach, what reflections look like through raindrops from a leaf, what Autumnal colours look like in the woods by the lake, what the view is like at the top of the mountain and what can you overcome within yourself along that journey. Ive taken up photography, invested in a proper grown up camera with proper lenses, a bright Orange (LOVE that colour!) rucksack, with proper compartments for those lenses and camera stuff…and sweeties for the long walks…(photos are on my website: www.melcollie.co.uk ¬†and Flickr too! Very posh! )

What is your curiosity? Follow that and you just may find your passion.
Mel Collie

www,melcollie.com

www.posturegeek.co.uk

Beginners Pilates Classes for posture, self esteem , fun, support, reflection and of course, the obvious core strength are now happening in Llanberis, North Wales.

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Mel Collie | She just wanted to be stronger…

Ouch… Older and wiser yet more tight and stiff when moving is a common story.

Getting up from the sofa and feeling stiff in your lower back was my client, Dianes, story, getting in and out of the car was a problem, feeling tight in the lower back after walking to dog too. She came to me wanting to have more flexibility and feel younger again, have more spring in her step like Tigger!

So, what did we do, well, we released her joints, and it didn’t take that much time either. and in doing so, her lower back pain went.

Released her knees, ankles, hips, shoulders and helped her breathe and feel free in her body. It wasn’t quite like this, but this is a great video from Dr Eric Cobb from Z Health showing how joint compression can inhibit movement, and yes, it really can be that simple, and is just one of the things I include in a posture and movement analysis from my home practice in Llanberis, Snowdonia.

These simple releases can help your movement, mobility, flexibility, release old injuries, even as far back as to twisting an ankle at the age of two, which is just one of the injuries Diane discussed in her injury history, and yes, we discuss your injury history too.

She has homework to do, 10 minutes a day, and she tracks her responses, her brain feels secure and happy, allowing her to move more freely.

One way you can help your shoulders move more freely is to release your wrists Shake out your hands as if you had water on your fingers. Push your arms away from you, and your hands, as if you were pushing a wall, hold that position. With your little fingers draw circles away from each other x 5 and towards each other x 5 Then do the same but with your index fingers.

Really feel the movement with this fingers. Make it work for you. Repeat 5 times today, and tomorrow, and the next day.

Simple wrists releases help shoulder strength, really useful if you are exercising and doing push ups, for example, as that position can create compression the wrist, a simple release can help your strength, rather than decrease it, which means you have more power and better form, and we all know the body releases more energy when the skeleton is in alignment.

Who doesn’t want that?

Mel Collie

Posture & Movement Correction Specialist

Lanberis

www.posturegeek.co.uk