Mel Collie | What is Grounding and how can it help your energy levels?
Grounding..is it the missing link?
On a health kick for the summer? Eating loads of green veggies, sales, fruit and drinking 2 litres of water a day?
Me too…done it before, but this time its different . I’ve learned some coaching skills to ask myself the right questions , so its more than just wanting to be fitter or slimmer for the beach..
It goes a lot deeper than that.
When you ask yourself the right questions, you begin to understand the “Why” behind your actions, as a lot of choices go back to childhood, back to when you were upset , crying, were given sweet treats to eat to comfort you, the brain is hardwired to realise this, so realisation as to why and when we reach for sweet things, goes deeper than just because its in the fridge.
Grounding is another powerful tool to help us.
Taking off your shoes and walking in the grass, feeling an uneven natural surface underfoot connects all the way up to your brain, plus your abs are connected to your feet, so the more your feet move the better the connection all the way up the kinetic chain.
Remember though, if you are the kind of person who always pushes themselves, thinks that rest, meditation, playfulness, relaxation, massage – are a waste of time or you are too buys for those kind of things, look at it this way..
Always working out isn’t great for the body, it needs to recover, rejuvenate, replenish.
So if you rely on coffee, alcohol, drugs to wake you up and keep your energy levels up, take away some stuff from your life right now to make space.
The average body today has 200 chemicals that do not belong in the human body.
Allow them to escape or diminish them by..
1. Stop overloading the immune system with chemicals so it can help you, not struggle – drink water over fizzy drinks for example, a simple thing, yet we shun it, is it because we think it too simple or that water is boring? We are made up from a very high percentage of water, we aren’t boring, get drinking, your immune system will be so grateful, as will your digestive system too.
2. Fatigue is becoming more common place, we are tired, yet wired. Adrenal fatigue is common, waking up but feeling tired and foggy. Count how many cups of caffeine you drink a day/week/month. Cut that figure by 50%. See how you feel then go for the whole lot, cut it all out. Replace the habit with caffeine free drinks – herbal tea (I started with peppermint tea and then tried others) Green tea is a good one in the beginning, it has a small amount of caffeine in it, but you may, if you are caffeine reactive, find that has to go too in the long run. Me ? I went from a habit of 5 or 6 double espressos plus sugar, to 1 in a week (phew…detox headache, and the smell off coffee made me feel sick..)went on peppermint tea, and green tea, lemon verbena tea, and other herbal teas.
3. Spend more time away from the mobile that on it. Switch it off, put it on silent, stop checking your emails and what everyone else is doing on Facebook…really, too much now..
its boring, get a real life and go for a walk, meet up with friends, get cooking real dinners. Wi Fi can seriously deplete energy levels, for many of us, we are totally unaware that we are sensitive to something we can’t see.
4. Improve digestion by taking long slow deep breaths as a habit, improve your brain function as well whilst you are at it. Breathe in for 4 slow (and I mean slow…) counts, hold it for 4 counts, exhale for 4 and hold that exhale for 4. Repeat for a minute x 10 times a day 😉
5. Try Tai Chi, Qi Gong, relaxing ways to “train” without feeling you have to beast yourself overtime you go to the gym, working in is more important than working out..helps balance the energies and hormonal system in a toxic world .
Bring some grounding habits into your life and watch your body become less chaotic.
Love and stuff as always..
Mel Collie & Chris Tuck
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Are You Tired In The Morning? 2 Ways To Wake Up With More Energy
Do you find it hard to get up in the morning, then find that later in the day you do wake up and then cant get to sleep? Do you have anxiety and crave salty and sweet foods? If you have ever heard of adrenal fatigue, you aren’t alone. Its something I notice when I’m tired & over stressed, so, this is what adrenal fatigue is and a couple of simple things you can do to overcome it.
What are adrenal glands? They sit on top of the kidneys, and secrete different hormones, one you may have heard about it Cortisol.
Theres a cascade of hormones that trigger this though, before the Cortisol is released.
This is the science bit – Your Hypothalmus (part of the brain) secretes a chemical corticotrophin releasing hormone. Its the bodies first level of action when we have a stress response to a threat. Stress response, feeling anxious, feel that life under threat, the body believes it, so secretes hormones as an expression of reality to what it believes is a threat, the body reacts, does that make sense?
A threat can be a utility bill on the mat, the bank account not looking healthy, a deadline at work, not feeling part of the local community, a relationship issue.
So, your hypothalmus secretes the hormone, sending message to pituitary gland to secrete adrenal hormones, which send message to adrenal glands to release , amongst others, cortisol being the one you have probably heard about.
So when we are under stress which is . for many of us, constant – anxiety, worrying thoughts that don’t go away, the hormones are secreted all the time. Our body is always at a Fight, Flight, Freeze reaction.
This means Cortisol is always at a high level in the body, you might find that belly fat hangs around for longer than it used to and is hard to shift, it takes more than regular dieting and doing crunches or going for a run. You find you are tired, hard to get up in the morning but hard to get to sleep at night as well as craving salty or sweet foods.
Replenishing your system is the way to work with your body and your bodies responses.
1. Deprived of sleep, working at the office, deadlines to meet, families to look after, training at the gym for hours, can all lead to chronic fatigue. Sometimes we have to reach the point of pain in order to stop and take a look at our life and see whats happening, listen to our bodies reactions and decide to do something. So when you are tired and wired, you may notice that this is the time to take the foot off the pedal and take time to change some things to reduce the revs .
Simple things like shutting off the lap top an hour before bed. Keeping the bedroom in total darkness at bedtime, turn the mobile off, turn the digital clock the other way around, the glare can disturb sleep. have a bath before bed, lock the door, have 10 mins to yourself. Go for a walk every day for 15 mins. Remember if you are already time short, make it just 4 minutes, and see if you have any extra time to add the next day or week. What you do during the day for yourself is like putting money into a bank account, it soon adds up and you begin to see the rewards and earn interest.
2. Training – going to the gym before work, training again at night, going for a run, training some more, doing 2 classes back to back then rushing home to cook dinner, wash up, clean the house, do the ironing, get the kids organised…to tired to have a bath for yourself and fall into bed exhausted to wake up tired. OK, for just 2 weeks change your training program. Walk every day for 15 – 30 minutes. Try training for 1 – 2 days with weights if you like doing weights, then 1 – 2 days doing a HiiT session (no more than 30 mins though for each session) Training for hours is a drain on the system if you are not supporting it in other ways, its fine if its your life, or a celebrity who has a chef and a PT and a maid etc etc or if you are an athlete, however, many fitness instructors also find their body stops responding when they do too much and suffer burn out and injury, you just don’t hear about it.
3. Thinking. A drain on the inner energy are your thoughts, this sounds too simple to be true, as we are conditioned to thinking we should be DOING stuff , rather than DOING less, which is where your replenish comes in. Keeping a journal, writing down a couple of things you are grateful for, a couple of things you noticed that day that made you feel grateful, happy. Notice how you speak to yourself , maybe you push yourself, expect a lot from yourself, beat yourself up a lot. This is me! I used to do this…a lot…the only thing that slows me down is meditation, questioning my thoughts (Byron Katies books helped a lot, check her out on You Tube…do her worksheet…) Theres no one more important than you, if you aren’t healthy and there then you are able to give to others what you would like to give. Fit your own oxygen mask first.
4. Eat well to nourish, not to punish. Supporting ourselves with nourishing minerals and vitamins are our fuel. Eating at the dinner table, not on the run or in the car or as you walk to and from appointments at work for example, sitting down, slowing down as you eat helps the system digest the food and improve gut flora (not those sugar laden stupid gut flora drinks..). Noticing how much caffeine you drink. Me, I used to drink 6 or more espressos a day with a couple of sugars too, now I barely touch it, maybe 1 or 2 a week, and I notice that sometimes I sweat afterwards and feel so wired, so definitely no caffeine after mid day at the latest for me. Noticing these habits and your reactions is the beginning to a journey that may take a while to grasp, but the first step is the hardest, but so is step 2 and 3, sticking to your plans are tricky at times, then the body will send you some signal to tell you to get back on track.
Herbs are also helpful – when I went through a programe and changed my diet and noticed my adrenal issues, I used Ashwaghanda and Rhodiola (from health food shops, you drop a few of the tinctures into water and drink it). Now,maybe you don’t need both, but I tried them out, and found that the former worked well for me in helping support the immune system, but also helping to calm me down and help sleep and stress levels reduce. Magnesium also helped massively, and I still take it today. (https://www.philrichardsperformance.co.uk/index.php/better-sleep/magnesium-relax.html)
Eat good fats and proteins. Nuts, avocado, seeds, good quality protein like fish, chicken , eggs, quality green veggies like Kale, Cabbage, Brocolli, Watercress. Oils like coconut oil, a great quality fat, so cut back on processed oils like vegetable oil (canola, sunflower oil can increase inflammatory joints and aggravate the gut) Sat is important, sea salt or himalayan salt (its pink!) is also great for supporting the adrenals.
So to recap – as I’ve mentioned more than 2 things you can do, and doing too much can lead to overwhelm, which means you then do absolutely nothing..So, just 2 simple things you can do right now are theses …cut back if you are over-training at the gym. More isn’t necessarily better, but how you train is, work smarter, not harder. Rest is key. And the second is – don’t be scared of eating good fats. Eat good fats as described above, help to heal your gut to help heal your inner workings, put the right fuel in the car and it runs…all the TV and media adverts saying low fat is bad are a load of total rubbish. Theres tons of scientific research out there. If something isn’t working for you, then change it.
Look inwards for the answer.
Its a short life, make the most of it by having a healthy and stress free one that you love living, not one that you are just struggling to crawl through.